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The Last Homely House

3/23/2026

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​"Frodo was now safe in the Last Homely House east of the sea. That house was, as Bilbo had long ago reported, 'a perfect house, whether you like food or sleep, or storytelling, or singing, or just sitting and thinking best, or a pleasant mixture of them all.' Merely to be there was a cure for weariness, fear and sadness.” (from Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien)

What kind of house do you live in? Most of us live in a house. Even our homeless community has a space they call home. Is your house or camp a "homely house," or just a house? When God said the "earth was His and the fullness thereof," he meant houses, too. (Psalm 24:1)  One version says, "the earth is the Lord's and everything in it."
EVERYTHING includes my house! Is your house a homely house where people come for a "cure for weariness, fear and sadness?"

We recently heard Francis Chan talk about how he and his wife have always had an open door policy in their home. He said that even when they were first married and hardly had room to turn around, their home was open for anyone who needed a place to stay. It wasn't always easy or pleasant, but he felt the Lord wanted them to have an open door policy. They still have that to this day (and no, don't call Francis and ask if you can move in with him and his wife!).

I am afraid that we live in an age when all our possessions are for US. We like our space. We like a low stress level. Unlike what we start out teaching our children, we don't like to share. 

I am guilty. I enjoy solitude. I like sitting on my porch with just my birds for company.

But how many stories can I tell about bird watching? I saw a mourning Dove today. I saw a red bird. Oh goodie, I saw a yellow finch!

Well, la-de-da.

I don't want to be just a bird watcher. I want people to feel safe in the last homely house east of the Smokies! I want a perfect house where people can get good food, good sleep, good stories and singing...or if they like...just sit on the porch and watch my birds.

Do you live in a homely house? Or do you just live in a house?

"My people will live in peaceful dwelling places, in secure homes, in undisturbed places of rest."  Isaiah 32:18
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Stand in the Gap

3/23/2026

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Ezekiel 22:30 says, "I looked for someone who might rebuild the wall of righteousness that guards the land. I searched for someone to stand in the gap in the wall so I wouldn't have to destroy the land, but I found no one."

Oh dear.

This hit me hard this morning when I read it. I believe that God is calling us to "stand in the gap" more than ever today. There is so much unrighteousness in our land—maybe even more than when this was written. 

I wonder why, when God calls me to stand in the gap, I hesitate...or don't pay attention at all. I say, “There is a lion in the street! (Proverbs 26:13) I had better stay in and not go out there!"

I think maybe God has called me over and over to "stand in the gap" and I missed my chance.

Tommy was talking recently about a book he read called "Move Toward the Mess" (John Hambrick). Does that sound like something you would like to do? It certainly does NOT sound like something I would get up each day and say.

"Lord show me the nastiest thing I can do today, and let me head toward it!"

Nope. My prayers usually go something like this:

“Lord, thanks for giving me another day. Help me to feel good. Protect my family. Keep us all safe. Don't let anything bad happen to us."

I could go on, but you get the point.  I cannot ever remember asking Him to move me toward a mess. In fact, I say, “Move me as far away as possible!"

Oh Lord, forgive me! There are a lot of messes in our world today. The wall of righteousness is indeed crumbling (if it hasn't already completely crumbled). If you are still looking for someone to stand in the gap, Lord, please choose me. I have to admit that I am not excited about the prospect, but I know that standing in any gap that you need someone to stand in is far better than not standing in it. And, running toward a mess is far better than running away. Mainly because if we run away, YOU aren't with us. You will be running or standing in the opposite direction of where we are going. I want to be in the gap and in the mess with You.
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In His Time

3/3/2026

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We used to sing a song in camp and in campus ministry called IN HIS TIME.

In His time
In His time
He makes all things beautiful
In his time.
Lord please show me every day
As You're teaching me to pray
That you do just what You say
In Your time.

I tend to forget that God's timing is perfect. Mine is not.

We are adding a room to the barn we are living in. I want it done yesterday.

God says,

"In MY time."

I'll wait.
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